Gotta love it right? This is what we looked like 14 years ago. 
Moving on. We had a great evening together which really started with us going to the temple to do sealings. I enjoyed being there 14 years after our sealing and thinking about the people we were there for and hearing again the wording of the ordinance. Fabulous. As we were walking out, Joel said he wanted to see the new patio area that has benches and a water fountain so we walked out there. I commented on liking the sound of the water and he said it was pretty. "But not as pretty as this..." and he pulled out and opened a ring box with a beautiful solitaire diamond ring in it. He says that if I can keep from losing this for a few years, we will talk new setting. (I thought about my lost ring today and cried again.) He had sent me a bouquet with some of the flowers from my wedding bouquet (tradition) earlier today. And we ended up at our favorite sushi place for dinner.
What did Joel get? Surprise and a kiss from me, a card and a skillet that is designed to be used on the grill. Oh, and I did some deep cleaning. (No, he appreciates that kind of thing!) Lame I know, and it isn't that anniversaries are all about the wife, it's just that I give him too many opportunities for good gift ideas. (lost wedding rings.) I sure love him though!! Rest assured.